Many folks in this world are held down by some manacles that have stagnated their progress in some of life’s ramifications–academics, marital, finances, career,etc.
They don’t do well or experience due progress in those areas of life. What could have caused it?
Well, there’s gat to be a reason(s) to this. And I’ll love to highlight some in this compodium.
Here they are:
1.Your Past: Oh yes!Your past–things that have happened to you, good or bad–can, of course, stagnate or decelerate or even retrogress your advancements.Take this as a quintessential scenery:You want to collect some confectioneries(sweets), but you have some stuffs full in the hollow of both hands. It won’t be possible to have those sweets if you don’t ‘put down’ those stuffs you have in your hands.
That, can be parabolic to the status quo of your life.The confectioneries are the good things you can get from life–or perhaps, new encounters; the stuffs are things encountered in the past, but still held in the present hindering better things–the confectioneries(goodies); Your hands picture your life.
One’s past might have not been glamorous, outright shimmering with gleefully seasoned, breathtaking memories,glistening with wonderful moments, or even if it was, shouldn’t ‘enter your head’ that you’ll forget the ‘better things’ life has to offer you.
Don’t brood or stay overjoyed too much on your past.Okay?It’s alright to be sad or happy about things that have happened to you.But don’t waste your time on them. It’s okay to vent your depression by crying, but don’t spend much time on it–time needed to sit up and plan aright.On the other hand, it’s okay to felicitate,feel fulfilled,elated about your progress, but don’t let it ‘get into your head’ that you’d now forget that there are more better grounds to break.
2. Your mentality: This is also a pivotal factor not to be omitted to notice. There’s a sagacious saying that says:”As you think,so you are.”Wow! That means if I have that mentality that I’ll do something well, surely, I will, or the other way round.
You see, if you do not ‘do away with’ some mentalities(beliefs),you’ll still be stucked sitting at the same place, position, state that you are for eons.
Hope you know what your mentalities are? If erroneous for your life’s advancement , correct them.
3. Fear: You may have the right mentality,strategy,plan,but fear might have been assailing or knocking you off balance with some flurries of stony blows,slowing you down. Fear can come in distinct dimensions like: Fear of what will happen next(fear of the unseen),of what people will say, and so on.
OVERCOME YOUR FEAR(S) BEFORE IT OVERCOMES YOU.
See, you have to take your thumb from your mouth,and grow some chest hair. Do like a Man because you are one!Gain some ‘nerves’, face your fears, look it in the eyes, daringly.
Tell it this:”I’m not concerned about what people will say about what I’m about to do, I’m not ‘moved’ about what the outcome will turn out to be!I believe that this(name it) will work, and if it doesn’t, I won’t give up! “
4. Self-motivation: Still in the same token, when we are not ‘jeered up,’ oftentimes, there’s a propensity that we won’t be willing to do some things or do them well.
YEAH.There’s nothing wrong in someone or some persons telling you that you can do it:motivating you. Peradventure, you might have not been the lucky type getting “peoples’ motivations.”
How do you feel then? Distraught, melancholy?
You don’t have to be that way! No, no! Though you may not have been in the right environment, surrounded by some couples of ‘good guys.’
You shouldn’t give approval to all these things to add ‘loads’ to your life and weigh you down. This is your life for goodness’ sake![surely,with a vehement conviction of mine, you shouldn’t be desiring a morass for your dear life’s advance ignition timing.]
There are diverse of ways of motivating yourself. You can get the right books and read them, or listen to exhilarating,invigorating messages that can motivate you.Just get motivated!
5. The right association: the ‘right association’–friendship,relationship,fellowship,and any ‘-ship’ you can think of (chuckles…)
There’s a common saying that says, “Show me your friends,and I will tell you who you are.” Yes,of course, I’m no prophet or seer, but ‘knowing ‘ those you walk with can give me an x-ray of your state.
If you have the right folks around you, it’ll go miles in helping your life.Yer.Believe this:There are some associations that can nourish one, mould one aright, foster one’s advancement.And also, there are some associations that can be injurious and devastatingly detrimental to the health of one’s life.
Open your eyes wide in selecting the right folks to sojourn with;Don’t be too scared to detach yourself from some unsafe fellowship or friendship. It’s for your own good.
6. Prayer: Lastly in my compodium is,without any much ado, praying to The Creator. It’s most essential to do this, because only Him is the sanctioner of any of our life’s plans.
Tell Him to lead you through,in following the very route,which invariably and undoubtedly,will,of course, lead to
***I believe this post has indeed given you some info about what might be happening to you***
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